Men CARE raises awareness against domestic violence
One in four women will experience domestic violence during their lifetime, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
Standing up· The silhouettes placed by USC Men CARE, part of the Silent Witness program, hold facts and figures about domestic violence. - Dan Doperalski | Daily Trojan
USC Men CARE, a student organization and education program, is trying to lower this statistic by raising awareness on campus.
In honor of Domestic Violence month, USC Men CARE, which stands for Men Creating Attitudes for Rape-free Environments, put up silhouettes outlining the bodies of domestic violence victims and attached their stories to their shadows.
“We place them throughout campus to provide facts about domestic violence and educate students so they can get involved,” said Todd Henneman, program director for USC Men CARE and assistant director for the Center for Women and Men.
This project is part of the organization’s Silent Witness program that encourages students to report domestic violence anonymously.
“You will likely know someone who’s experiencing or will experience domestic violence and you could become a victim of domestic violence,” Henneman said.
Every year 15.5 million children witness domestic violence and many are negatively influenced by this experience, Henneman said. He also said that women ages 20 to 24 are at greatest risk of experiencing domestic violence.
“If it hasn’t been something you’ve dealt with in the past, it will be something you’ll have to deal with in the future,” said Cameron Sabol, president of USC Men CARE.
The program presents advice and offers strategies to students on how to maintain healthy relationships.
“We go around and give lectures on how to recognize red flags for sexual assault and domestic violence,” said Sabol, a senior majoring in physics and computer science astronautical engineering.
According to Henneman, the audience was surveyed before and after the lectures. The surveys were then given to the USC Rossier School of Education for analysis.
“The results show there were improvements of attitude; people were more likely to speak up,” Henneman said.
CarolAnn Peterson, an adjunct professor who teaches an undergraduate course on domestic violence in the USC School of Social Work, said she values people who acknowledge the serious issue of domestic violence.
“Whenever men get involved in an issue portrayed as a women issue it’s good,” Peterson said. “It’s a community issue and it’s important to stand up.”
Peterson’s course educates students on how to determine what domestic violence looks like, understand why it occurs and identify who perpetrates it.
Henneman said domestic violence is often perceived as a man abusing a woman, when in reality most domestic violence occurs in some form of emotional abuse.
“It is important to understand different forms of domestic violence,” he said. “An example is someone, a boyfriend or girlfriend, who wants all your free time and casts all others as a threat so it’s the two of you versus the world.”
Although Sabol said a very small portion of the male population perpetrates domestic violence, USC Men CARE promotes healthy masculine expression in its lectures and presentations.
“All-male groups like sports teams and frats invite us to speak,” Sabol said.
The program’s 12 members learn about sexual assault, gender roles and masculinity before lecturing.
“Sometimes there is pressure on college guys to prove their manhood through drinking, fighting … and the key is to speak up,” Henneman said.
Although most males want to resist bad influences and avoid getting into unhealthy situations, Henneman said most are afraid of being the first to object.
“After one guy calls the [perpetrator] out, the others usually speak up,” he said.
USC Men CARE began in 2005 and unlike most organizations, it has survived after its founding members graduated, Henneman said.
“Lots of other universities want to start something like this because it’s unique,” he said. “It’s a very eclectic, diverse group of guys.”
Why not stand up and raise awareness about victims, female and male victims of domestic violence? Why is this division of genders needed to combat and end domestic violence when domestic violence can no longer be considered a gender based social problem? Yes some men are still believe that they have a right to control, dominate and oppress women, however, those men are the exception rather than the “rule” today.
Why aren’t we encouraging college students to end domestic violence in all relationships?
If one victim is too many, then why is it that so many say, “women are the more prevalent and injured group so that’s the group of victims we focus on.” If ONE VICTIM IS TOO MANY why limit our services and public awareness to combating just part of the problem?
Governor Schwarzenegger has to be commended making a very wise, sound decision in restoring funding for battered women shelters. Without a shelter for a battered woman to go to, she could be killed or severely beaten. This is a very important point that Governor Schwarzenegger recognized. Most men are bigger than women. This is a reverse decision for Governor Schwarzenegger and this decision shows that the Governor has a flexible mind to do what is right. Well done! Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger! You have saved the lives of many, battered women. If a husband has plans to kill his wife, beware, the “Terminator wil be Back.”