LGBTQ, Greek communities work to bridge the gap with each other

By austin reagan · Daily Trojan

Posted January 30, 2013 at 11:59 pm in Featured, News

The university has been known for its thriving Greek community, with about thousands of undergraduates in a fraternity and sorority, and has, in recent years, topped several national lists for being an LGBTQ-friendly campus. Still, members of both communities recognize a divide and dissonance in their intersection.

Common ground · Queer and Ally Student Assembly Director Mellissa Linton leads a discussion about the intersection of the LGBTQ and Greek communities. Greek Chat is held on the last Wednesday of each month.  - Shabnam Ferdowsi | Daily Trojan

Common ground · Queer and Ally Student Assembly Director Mellissa Linton discusses the intersection of the LGBTQ and Greek communities. – Shabnam Ferdowsi | Daily Trojan

Every month, a group of out, closeted and questioning Greek students gather to discuss the interaction of USC’s lesbian, bisexual, gay, transgender and queer community with the Greek community, in a Greek Chat hosted by the LGBT Resource Center. The Queer and Ally Student Assembly hosted one such discussion at the Alpha Delta Pi house Wednesday night.

[Correction: A previous version of this article indicated that the event, hosted by the Queer and Ally Student Assembly, was the same as the monthly LGBT Resource Center event. The Daily Trojan regrets the error.]

About 15 students who identify with one or both communities shared their experiences and thoughts on the growing population of Greek actives who also identify as LGBTQ.

The discussion, put on and led by assistant director of QuASA Liz Soriano, made clear that both groups are tangibly divided. Attendants, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, were almost entirely unanimous in saying that much must be done to bridge the gap between the Greek system and the LGBTQ community. Miscommunication and ignorance are seemingly prevalent on both sides.

“People at USC don’t hate gay people, but gay people don’t necessarily fit in with the USC Greek system,” said a gay junior in a fraternity.

One gay senior in a fraternity said it was difficult to be a member of both communities.

“As a Greek person and as a gay person, I feel that I have been attacked, in some respect, for both identities,” he said.

On the other hand, lesbian students said they felt the Greek system is particularly hostile.

“What makes me uncomfortable about the Greek system is the rampant misogyny,” said a lesbian junior who is not in the Greek system.

The group also discussed National Coming Out Day, held on Oct. 11. The consensus of the group was that sororities had been much more receptive to the LGBTQ community, even though there are more openly gay men in fraternities than openly lesbian women in sororities.

One student attributed it to larger acceptance of gay men in the United States.

“Gay men are glorified way more on this campus than lesbians,” said one lesbian who is not in the Greek system. “That’s not a USC thing, that’s a country thing.”

One lesbian student in a sorority, who joked that she is the only Greek lesbian, said certain events reveal the divide between gay students and Greek students.

“Parties are when the antagonism between the Greek community and the gay community becomes most apparent,” she said.

On the other hand, gay members of fraternities said acceptance varied from fraternity to fraternity.

“I was denied from a frat because they thought I was girly,” said one gay member of a fraternity.

One openly gay freshman, however had a better experience having rushed fraternities during spring rush and received a bid from one of them.

“There are some frats that seem very, very straight,” he said. “And there are a few that seem more comfortable with the idea of homosexuality in the group.”

According to him, the emphasis on heterosexual relationships plays a large role in the fraternity culture, which can be a tremendous deterrent for LGBTQ members who are interested in rushing.

“I’m not sure if I will end up taking the bid – I’m still thinking about it but am a bit reluctant.”

At the same time, LGBTQ students remain interested in Greek life.

“There’s a lot of curiosity on both sides,” said a gay freshman in a fraternity. “I see it all the time.”

Not all students present spoke on the condition of anonymity. Claire Pires, a senior majoring in broadcast and digital journalism and theatre, was raised by two mothers and has been a lifelong supporter of the LGBTQ community. Though she recognizes the merits of the Greek system, she also acknowledges a stigma toward homosexuality — particularly among female Greeks.

“I know a few gay boys in fraternities, but no gay people in sororities,” Pires said. “I just don’t think that gay people tend to flock towards Greek life. Greek life can be quite traditional. That can make it fun, but it also doesn’t necessarily appeal to the gay community.”

QuASA Director Mellissa Linton emphasized the necessity of discussions like this one to bridge the gap between the LGBTQ and Greek communities.

“I really hope that panels like this can set a precedent for communication and understanding between the two groups,” she said.

6 Comments on “LGBTQ, Greek communities work to bridge the gap with each other”

  1. Tex

    There a couple of lower tier houses with out gay guys. Top tier gays are all in the closet.

  2. HereQueerGETused2IT

    We are kidding ourselves if we think a few ice cream socials at a sororislut house makes a difference with the drunk boys on 28th street. Get real people!! A queer here and there at Beta, Lambda, or Phi Psi means nothing! Especially when they hide behind the Bi or Questioning label. I mean come on! Until the greek system as a whole – and that means the pathetically straight homophobes like TKE and SAE accept us for who we are. We should have nothing to do with them. No dialogue. Just be real!

  3. Steve

    Looks like Phi Delt final got a social function with at least two girls. Congrats boys! The straight ones will following in time…

  4. USCLGBT

    To clarify, Greek Chat is sponsored by the LGBT Resource Center – a department within Student Affairs. For more information, visit: http://sait.usc.edu/lgbt/signature-programs/greek-chat.aspx.
    Also a congratulations to this event’s coordinator Elizabeth.

    • TrojanSig48

      What nonsense. There are no gays in the Greek system. Go recruit somewhere else. Just a bunch of pansies patiing each other on the backs.

      • Wes

        Here we ago again with the old curmudgeon trolls. I know you’re lonely, but find something better to do than troll on a college newspaper. You’re a disgrace to all alumni.

More News

  Daily Trojan Spring Awakening Supplement

Blogs

Daily Trojan Poll

Which headliner did you enjoy most at Springfest?

View Results

Loading ... Loading ...

Archives

January 2013
S M T W T F S
« Dec   Feb »
 12345
6789101112
13141516171819
20212223242526
2728293031  

Browse Archives

News

Dr. Dre, Iovine give $70 mil for new academy

A new type of undergraduate experience will be added to the university as music icons Jimmy Iovine and Dr. Dre are together giving $70 million ...

UPDATE: LAPD, DPS hold open forum for students

Video from the scene, courtesy of USC Black Student Assembly.   Students, alumni, faculty and community members voiced their concerns at an emotional open forum between the ...

Students hold sit-in in response to LAPD presence at party

[gallery link="file" ids="67092,67091,67090,67089,67088,67087,67086,67085,67084"] Photos by Razan Al Marzouqi   More than 100 students gathered in front of Tommy Trojan for a sit-in Monday afternoon in response to events ...

Opinion

Syrian conflict explodes

On May 16, President Barack Obama told the public about evidence that shows chemical weapons being used in the ongoing Syrian crisis, according to BBC ...

Extra-curriculars, internships as important as grades

As summertime rolls around and the sun and ocean begin to beckon eager pupils, one last roadblock stands in the way of true vacation bliss: ...

’SC sets example in lowering dropout rate

A report sponsored by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation reveals that the nation’s higher education system is facing a dropout crisis. Produced in part ...

Sports

Women of Troy fall in the round of 16

With a 15-match winning streak against the Cardinal and after bouncing the team from the NCAA quarterfinals last season, the No. 5 USC women’s tennis ...

Trojans can’t pull off unprecedented ‘5-peat’

An outstanding four-year championship run ended for the USC men’s tennis program on Saturday, May 18, in Urbana, Ill., as the No. 4 Trojans were ...

USC suffers sweep to rival UCLA

When USC and UCLA took the field this weekend for their annual three-game clash, it was hard to envision two more different teams and programs. ...

Lifestyle

Daft Punk transcends genre in RAM

After eight long years, the eccentric French electronic music duo Daft Punk is re-entering the electronic music fray. Their new album, Random Access Memories, was ...

Midnight builds on strengths of preceding films

Movie trilogies have a bit of a reputation for being films that rely heavily on action and excitement. They’re usually big money earners, which is ...

An Exercise in Authenticity

Though Generation Um…includes a star studded cast—Keanu Reeves, Bojana Novakovic, and Adelaide Clemens—this film surprisingly has more of an indie vibe.  Set in New York ...

Photos

In Photos: Washington comes to USC

In Photos: Washington comes to USC

The Schwarzenegger Institute held an immigration reform forum titled "Washington comes to USC", with U.S Senators John McCain, Michael Bennet and former President of Mexico ...

In Photos: Armenian Genocide

Photos by Ani Kolangian [gallery link="file" ids="66554,66555,66556,66557,66558,66559,66560,66561,66562"]

In Photos: Springfest 2013

Photos by Priyanka Patel. [gallery link="file" ids="65587,65586,65585,65584,65583,65582,65581,65580,65579,65578,65577,65576"]